Whether Money is Everything in The World?

Hanya karena turun dari mobil mewah lalu pihak rumah sakit menjemputnya dengan kursi roda, lantas berkesimpulan bahwa mobilnya itu menjadikan dia dilayani seperti raja dan ratu.

Padahal petugas hanya menjalankan tugas untuk menyediakan kursi roda pada pasien manapun, entah yang datang dengan taksi, mobil, maupun jalan kaki.

Hanya karena mobil suaminya kurang mewah dibanding mobil lainnya di jasa carwash, lantas menjadi kasihan pada suaminya.

Padahal lebih kasihan karena suaminya belum menjadi imam di keluarga dengan agamanya.

Hanya karena melihat keluarga pasien sebelahnya yang penampilannya biasa saja, lantas menganggap keluarga itu dari keluarga miskin.

Padahal bisa jadi keluarga itu dari keluarga yang lebih kaya.

Hanya karena bisa membelanjakan hartanya di klinik kecantikan, butik, mall, restoran, lantas menganggap dia paling dermawan atas kekayaannya.

Padahal diminta sumbangan orang sakit saja berdalih. 

Hanya karena orang lain membeli barang mahal, lantas tidak mau kalah dengan ikut membeli barang mahal. 

Padahal dia tidak membutuhkannya.

Andaikan dia mengetahui.. andaikan dia mengetahui.. ayat di bawah ini:

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Bermegah-megahan, Sifat Yang Menjadi Azab

Iri identik dengan perasaan kalah terhadap orang lain, dan sombong identik dengan perasaan menang terhadap orang lain. Iri dan sombong inilah yang menyebabkan orang berusaha keras, mati-matian, berjungkir-balik, untuk memperoleh kekayaan, derajat (kedudukan) dan kekuasaan.

Hasrat orang yang iri hati atau sombong ialah asal dapat melebihi orang lain dalam segala hal. Dalam hal makanan, pakaian, perumahan, keluarga, anak-anak dan sebagainya, ia ingin melebihi orang lain. Bila dalam usahanya untuk melampaui orang lain itu sering tergelincir bahkan justru dilampaui orang lain, maka dia sakit hati. Bila dalam usahanya menyusahkan orang lain, sering berbalik menyusahkan diri sendiri maka ia masih tinggal dapat mengumpat dan memfitnah orang lain.

Dalam surat ke-102 (AtTakaatsur 1-2: حَتَّى زُرْتُمُ الْمَقَابِر*أَلْهَاكُمُ التَّكَاثُرَ ) disebutkan kecintaan terhadap kenikmatan dunia dan perhiasannya tersebut akan melalaikan diri dan keluarga dari mencari dan mengejar kehidupan akhirat karena disibukkan dengan mengumpulkan harta hingga ajal menjemput.

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Envy bin Hasud

The Prophet said: "Stay away from you all envy, malice because it takes away all good, as the fire engulfed the dry firewood."

Hasud was not happy to see the advantages of others, then he too tried to drop the honor, from the ugliness lurking, backbite, slander, to shirk the shaman was done and even to kill. Hasud liver disease who are too sick to make the body, comes from the world of love, pride felt himself superior to nature and hypocrites Because in love with the world.

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Alloh Has Never Broken a Promise, The Ordinance of Alloh is Always Right

Dahsyatnya kekuatan DOA (QS. Al Baqarah: 186) telah kami rasakan. Baik itu doa yang terpanjat dari kami sendiri, kedua orangtua, saudara, dan teman.

لَيْسَ شَيْءٌ أَكْرَمَ عَلَى اللَّهِ تَعَالَى مِنَ الدُّعَاءِ

“Tidak ada sesuatu yang lebih besar pengaruhnya di sisi Allah Ta’ala selain do’a.” (HR. Tirmidzi no. 3370, Ibnu Majah no. 3829, Ahmad 2/362. Syaikh Al Albani mengatakan bahwa hadits ini hasan).

Demi suatu harapan setiap orang pastinya berdoa kepada Yang Maha Pemberi, Alloh SWT. Terkabulnya doa adalah hak prerogatif Alloh. Bisa jadi permintaan hambaNya dipending dulu untuk beberapa lamanya bahkan sangat lama. Bisa jadi Alloh memberikan sedikit cobaan dulu sebelum mengabulkan sebuah doa untuk menguji kadar keimanan, kesabaran, dan ketawakalan hambaNya.

Mungkin yang demikian itu bentuk kasih sayang Alloh pada kami. Sekitar 3 bulan lalu, Alloh memberikan sedikit cubitan pada saya. Sakit? Tentu saja.. saya merasa menjadi orang yang paling malang sedunia. Namun suami saya mengingatkan saya bahwa cubitan itu tanda sayang Alloh pada kita, sehingga kita sadar akan kealpaan sebagai manusia, untuk kemudian insyaf dan memahami akan ujian Alloh tersebut.

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Grace of Alloh What Else do You Deny?

Umumnya hal yang paling disukai oleh sebagian orang adalah jika apa yang diinginkan terwujud. Baik itu secara tiba-tiba atau cepat maupun dalam waktu yang relatif lama atau menunggu. Apapun itu, bersyukur lebih baik daripada terus berangan-angan.

For me as a child and a wife, the most I want is to be grateful for what Allah has bestowed on us. The main thing is Islam, then Rizqi blessed, health, family harmony, as well as other grace that can not be mentioned because a lot so it can not be calculated. Forgive me if we neglect Ya Alloh ..
 

Maka nikmat Tuhan kamu yang manakah yang kamu dustakan? (QS.55)

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Khatam

Ya Alloh,
Blessed your affection for me through Your AlQur'an
Make it faith, light, guidance, and source of grace for me
Remind me if I forget to remember the verses
Teach me the verses are hard to understand
Give me pleasure when reading it at any time of day or night
And, make it as a proof to me, Oh Lord of all the worlds

Alhamdulillah, this day, in the month of this romadlon I khatam read AlQur'an again, completing daily reading. hopefully more passion to khatam again. amen ..

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Searched The Mosque

Mencari masjid, namun bukan untuk sholat atau menghadiri majlis ta’lim. Ya, umumnya ke masjid tentu bila waktu sholat telah tiba. Di manapun berada wajib mendatangi masjid, tak peduli kaya atau miskin, wajah rupawan atau tidak, tua atau muda, semua berkumpul dalam barisan shof yang rapi menghadap kiblat untuk menjalankan sholat. Begitulah hendaknya bila orang  menyebut dirinya muslim.

 

Ada fenomena lain, saya menemukan kenyataan ada segelintir, 2 gelintir, maupun banyak gelintir, orang yang mencari masjid bukan untuk beribadah sholat. Melainkan hanya untuk mendapatkan ‘pengakuan’ yang sebenarnya bertentangan dengan kebiasaannya sehari-hari.

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A Time When Doctors Did Not Sell

Kejadian pada suatu masa, dokter tidak dibutuhkan!

Rosululloh SAW pernah dihadiahi seorang dokter oleh Gubernur Romawi yang berkuasa di Mesir. Dari waktu ke waktu dokter ini tidak mempunyai pasien. Setelah dia menunggu lama, dia terkejut karena hampir dikatakan tidak ada pasien yang berobat padanya. Bahkan Rosulullah SAW pemimpin negara Madinah sebagai orang yang dia ‘kawal’ kesehatannya pun tidak sakit sama sekali dalam waktu yang dibutuhkan oleh sang dokter untuk merasa tersiksa karena mendapatkan status ‘pengangguran intelektual’..

Hal ini terjawab ketika sang dokter bertanya kepada Rosulullah SAW di akhir masa tugasnya, “apa rahasia yang menyebabkan kalian ini suatu kaum yang hampir dikatakan tidak pernah sakit?” Rosulullah SAW menjawab, “Kami adalah suatu kaum yang tidak makan sebelum kami lapar dan berhenti makan sebelum kami kenyang”.

Olahraga menunggang kuda di masa Rosulullah SAW merupakan olahraga populer. Di sebut olahraga karena pengendara harus ikut menaik dan menurunkan badan agar bagian vitalnya tidak terbentur-bentur punggung kuda. Dengan demikian mereka sudah cukup memenuhi waktu dan dosis olahraga yang membuat merea menjadi bugar dan tanggap menyelesaikan tugas harian mereka. Di masa kini jogging sama capeknya dengan berkuda.

Suatu ketika Ubadah bin Shamit menerima hadiah, beliau memiliki keluarga sebanyak 12 orang. Kemudian dia berkata, “ pergilah kalian dengan hadiah ini kepada keluarga fulan karena mereka lebih membutuhkan hadiah ini dari pada saya. Akan tetapi ketika hadiah itu sampai pada keluarga tersebut mereka mengatakan hal yang sama. Begitu seterusnya, akhirnya hadiah itu kembali pada keluarga Ubadah sebelum waktu subuh.

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Much Talk, Many Lie

Dari Abu Hurairah Rådhiyallåhu ‘anhu berkata, bahwa rasulullah shållallåhu ‘alayhi wa sallam bersabda:

مَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَاليَوْمِ الآخِرِ فَلْيَقُلْ خَيْرًا أَوْ لِيَصْمُتْ

“Barang siapa yang beriman kepada Allah dan hari akhir hendaknya ia berkata yang baik atau diam.”

[HR. Al-Bukhari dalam al-Adab hadits (6018) dan Muslim hadits (47).]

“Rasulullah Shållallåhu 'alayhi wa sallam bersabda:

“Sesungguhnya orang yang paling aku benci dan paling jauh dariku di akhirat nanti adalah orang yang paling jelek akhlaknya, orang yang banyak bicara, orang yang berbicara dengan mulut yang dibuat-buat dan orang yang sombong...”

[Shahih al-Jami’ash-Shaghir no. 1531]

Suatu kali Sufyan bin Abdillah at-Tsaqafi Radhiyallahu 'anhu bertanya kepada rasullullah Shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam dengan berkata:

“Wahai rasulullah, beritahukan kepadaku sesuatu yang dapat aku jadikan sebagai pegangan hidupku!

Beliau berkata:

“Katakanlah, Tuhanku adalah Allah kemudian beristiqamahlah!”

Aku berkata lagi:

"Wahai rasulullah apa yang paling engkau takutkan terhadap diriku?'

Beliau mengeluarkan lidahnya kemudian berkata, Ini.”

[HR at-Tirmidzi dalam az-Zuhd hadits (2410) dan Ahmad 3/413]

Terjadinya lisan seseorang menghamburkan kata-kata kasar, menyakitkan, jorok, dan sia-sia, semua itu, tidak bisa tidak, bersumber dari hati yang tidak beres. Seseorang yang hatinya tidak selamat akan sangat sulit mengendalikan lisannya. Apa saja yang terlihat di depan matanya niscaya akan membuat lidahnya gatal untuk segera berkomentar, terlepas dari komentarnya itu bermutu atau tidak, bermanfaat bagi dirinya atau tidak, ada yang mendengarkan atau tidak. Jelas, tak akan pernah disadari bahwa perkataaanya mungkin bisa sisa-sia.

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The Child's Prayer

Kisah nyata yang patut dijadikan renungan bagi orang tua, setidaknya bagi calon ibu yang akan menentukan jalan pendidikan bagi sang buah hati, baik pendidikan di dalam dan di luar rumah.. 

Saat itu saya dan beberapa teman sedang santai menikmati sore yang cerah dan obrolan pun mengalir. Salah satu teman saya adalah ibu dari 3 putra. Anak pertamanya laki-laki masih kelas 2 Sekolah Dasar sangat rajin sholat di masjid. Dia bercerita bahwa dia ingin mengetahui doa yang dipanjatkan sang anak sehabis sholat. Kurang lebih seperti beginilah ceritanya.

B: bunda

A: anak

B: ”Sehabis sholat kamu berdoa apa sama Allah".
Sambil senyum-senyum sang anak menjawab:

A: “Aku minta dikasih seorang wanita yang cantik dan sexi”.

Bunda kaget dan menegur anaknya:

B: “Doanya kok seperti itu? Maksudnya yang sexi seperti apa?".

A: “Ya pokoknya sexi yang putih, yang pakai baju mini, pakai tali di pundak, terus tidur bareng”.

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Tebang Pilih Syariat Islam

Hai orang-orang yang beriman, masuklah kamu ke dalam Islam secara keseluruhan, dan janganlah kamu turut langkah-langkah syaitan. Sesungguhnya syaitan itu musuh yang nyata bagimu. [Al Baqarah : 208]

Setiap orang tentu mempunyai hak dan kewajiban atas dirinya. Misalnya hak untuk mengenyam pendidikan setinggi-tingginya disertai kewajiban untuk membayar biaya SPP demi kelangsungan pendidikan yang ditempuhnya.

Dalam urusan agama tidaklah berbeda, ada hak dan kewajiban yang seharusnya dia dapatkan. Namun kenyataannya sebagian orang mengambil ajaran dan hukum islam yang hanya menguntungkan dirinya saja. Dengan kata lain mengutamakan hak-hak dia dalam aturan agama, sedangkan kewajiban dalam agama sebagai muslim/muslimah dikesampingkan. Padahal ayat di atas menyerukan untuk mengikuti syariat islam secara keseluruhan.

Alkisah, Seorang anak laki-laki yang menuntut pembagian harta orang tuanya sedangkan orang tuanya masih hidup. Pembagian harta pun diminta sesuai hukum islam yakni mendapatkan 2x anak perempuan. Ironisnya, dia tidak berbakti dengan memperhatikan kebutuhan orang tuanya padahal sebenarnya dia mampu menafkahi ibunya.

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Housewife (2)

Profesi sebagai ibu rumah tangga janganlah dinilai secara materi. Pekerjaan yang dianggap remeh sebagian orang ternyata tidak sederhana seperti dalam bayangan saat menjalaninya. Selama menjadi ibu rumah tangga lebih dari 3 tahun ini, ternyata memang benar pekerjaan rumah tangga membutuhkan profesionalisme berupa keahlian, pengetahuan dan keterampilan sama dengan pekerjaan kantor lainnya. Jika di kantor hanya kebagian tugas mengurusi satu bagian, ternyata di rumah tugasnya tidak hanya satu bagian, melainkan wajib berperan multiguna sebagai direktur, manajer, sekretaris sekaligus pekerja, yang tidak hanya bisa memahami, tapi juga harus bisa menguasai semua bagian. Letih? Tentu saja..

Apalagi bila hidup terpisah jauh dari orang tua dan saudara, terutama dalam perantauan yang hidup dalam lingkungan baru yang awalnya asing, mau tidak mau harus bisa bersahabat. Keuletan dan kesabaran dibutuhkan ekstra besar. Jika tidak demikian, hari-hari terasa menyiksa dan menjemukan.

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Bertetangga

Konsekuensi beriman kepada Allah dan hari akhir mengharuskan seseorang untuk memuliakan tetangga dan tamunya.

عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال : ( من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليقل خيرا أو ليصمت ، ومن كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليكرم جاره ، ومن كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليكرم ضيفه ). رواه البخاري ومسلم.

Artinya :

Diriwayatkan dari Abu Hurayrah –radhiyallahu 'anhu- bahwa Rasulullah –Shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam- bersabda : "Siapa yang beriman (percaya) kepada Allah dan Hari Akhir, maka haruslah ia berkata yang baik atau (kalau tidak) diam. Siapa yang beriman (percaya) kepada Allah dan Hari Akhir, maka haruslah ia memuliakan jiran (tetangga)nya. Dan siapa yang beriman (percaya) kepada Allah dan Hari Akhir, maka haruslah ia memuliakan tamunya. Dilaporkan oleh Imam al-Bukhory dan Muslim.

Hadits ini menerangkan tiga hal yang terkait dengan aspek akhlak dalam pergaulan sehari-hari: 

1. Sedikit bicara (menjaga lisan), 

2. Kewajiban menghormati tetangga, dan 

3. Memuliakan tamu.

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Arrogant

One characteristic of the most hated by Alloh Almighty is arrogant. Is to consider himself a big arrogant and view others despicable / low. One day we may see an ease in the affair. People ask how you solve these problems. With a loud and proud you answered ".. I can do it!". We have often prided themselves and putting down others, especially those we consider beneath us. Or feel to have something more than others. So mocking or even demean people others. Na'udzubillah

Alloh forbids us to pride:
Addons "And do not walk on this earth with arrogance, for thou art never could penetrate the earth and at all times you will not be as high as mountains." [al-Israa ': 37]

Alloh hates the people who are arrogant:
Addons "And do not turn your face from humans (for pride), nor walk in insolence through the earth. Alloh loves not those who prided themselves proud again. "[Luqman: 18]

The Prophet said that the proud though only a few will not necessarily go to heaven:
Addons From Ibn Mas'ud, the Prophet, he said: "I will not enter heaven, someone who in his heart there atoms from the arrogant nature." A Prophet's companions asked: "Surely someone like if clothing is beautiful or sandals are also good." Prophet said: "Verily, Alloh Ta'ala is the Most Beautiful and loves beauty. Nature is the arrogant disregard of truth and contempt for other human beings "[Reported by Muslim]

The Prophet also said that the proud will undoubtedly be tortured by Alloh in the hereafter:
From al-Aghar from Abu Hurarirah and Abu Sa'eed, the Prophet said: Addons "Alloh said: Glory is to my clothing, while arrogance is my scarf. Whoever is to release them from me, and I will torture him. " [Reported by Muslim]

(It was said unto them): Addons "Enter ye the gates of Hell, while you dwell therein. And evil is the place for people who are arrogant. "[Al-Mu'min: 76]

Abi Salamah narrated that Abdullah ibn Umar ibn Amr met at Marwah. Both then went downstairs and talk to one another. Furthermore, Abdullah ibn Amr ibn Umar went and sat sobbing. When asked about what made him cry, he said: "This man (ie 'Abdullah bin Amr) has claimed that he heard the Prophet said:" He who in his heart there is atoms from the arrogant nature, then Alloh will afflict Fire at his face "Bayhaqi
From the above hadith is sufficient for us to realize that the nature of pride is very dangerous for us.

Imam Ghazali in his book, "Ihya '' Uluumuddiin" writes how people can be arrogant while in him there is a smell of 1-2 kilograms of dung?

Sometimes a snob because of his wealth. But one ought to remember, when people called it was born rich they do not have anything. When death did not bring anything except fabric embedded in the body. At the time of death is not helpful all the treasure and what they have done.

Addons "It is not useful to him their possessions and what they earn." [Al Lahab: 2]
As Qarun, a treasure that we have no other Alloh's entrusted to us. When we die we will be parting with the "treasure" we.

Addons "Alloh belongeth the kingdom of heaven and earth and all that is therein, and He hath power over all things." [Al-idah Maa: 120]

Often arrogant people in power or position. Though his power and position are also not eternal. When dead, the power is lost. We replaced with another.

Addons "Say:" O Lord of the kingdom, You give the kingdom to the person who you want and you remove the kingdom from whom You will. You glorified people who you want and you degrade those whom You will. You are all virtues in hand. Surely You have power over all things. "[Ali 'Imraan: 26]

Pharaoh king of Egypt who is now a proud body of the helpless. Alexander the Great or Alexander the Great that his empire included parts of Africa, Europe, and Asia currently lives mere bones. Hitler had also feared dead as well as his enemies.

Only Alloh Almighty, which remain immutable and eternal life forever. So what makes a human being deserves to feel proud?

There's also an arrogant person because of her beautiful face and shapely. Yet when the old, it will be ugly and wrinkled face. When he was buried, then his face will stay only a mere skull. Is it appropriate for humans to be arrogant?

Anything else is arrogant because of his strength or a muscular body. We have witnessed the first Samson able to defeat a lion with his bare hands was now lying in the soil. Muhammad Ali who used to boast about being the biggest (I am the Greatest) is now weak Parkinson's disease. As soon as strong as any older person would be weak. Once he's dead entirely powerless.

Alloh warns that humans were created from the semen that was worthless. Is it appropriate for the human being arrogant?

Addons "And if people do not consider that We created him from a drop of semen, then he suddenly became a real contender!" [Ya Sin: 77]

From the article above it is clear that there is no reason for man to be arrogant. The threat of hell for people who are arrogant but only as small as atoms should be the guy who makes us humble.

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Bakhil

People naturally feel that Rizqi grabber that Alloh gave is too small to be divided. This is evidence of denial against Rizqi and ni'mat that Alloh gave. As if he said, "O Alloh! Rizqi from you is very little to share with others. "

Alloh Almighty says:

"And let not those who are griping with the treasures of Alloh's grace given them think that it is good for their stinginess. Stinginess Actually it is bad for them. Bakhil The property will be worn around their neck later on the Day of Resurrection. "(Ali-Imran: 180)

"Whoever he really was just a stingy miser to himself." (Muhammad: 38)

Prophet Hadiths:

"There will enter Paradise who Grabber, traitor, liar, and someone who has a bad character."

"People are griping far from Alloh, away from humans, far from heaven, and the close of hell. Ignorant people are more generous than to be loved by Alloh are hunks of worship expert; most chronic diseases are illiberal. "

Someone who has made an shodaqoh certainly feel that Alloh has given him Rizqi a lot, just enough for themselves, their families and can be shared to others in need. As if he said, "Thank you O Alloh! You really have given me a lot Rizqi until I could do shodaqoh. "

People who do it are people who shodaqoh grateful and will get additional ni'mat of Alloh in the world and the hereafter. As for those who Grabber again Kufr, Alloh threatened him with torture.

As for those who give (freely in the way of Alloh) and do right, and justify the best reward, then We will prepare him an easy road. (Al-Lail: 5-7)

Conversely, if we are griping, Alloh will prepare for us a difficult road. It is difficult here is not always difficult livelihood. Established its economic might, but we are very easy to do with the facilities provided ma'siat it. Ma'siat While it would be a difficult road for us in the afterlife. In fact, it can be difficult due to ma'siat also be felt in the world with the existence of various mushibah like a rebellious child, severe illness, etc..

As for those who are pleased with how to do shodaqoh thankful, for them there to ease the easy road. Easily in the world and also in the hereafter. Easy worship, have a good environment, good family, kept from mushibah, etc..

Benefits of doing this shodaqoh can be felt in the world and also in the hereafter. Alloh promised to recruit a living person who has made an shodaqoh every day. And the Prophet has taught us to do do shodaqoh every day in this world. People who do make shodaqoh will be forgiven his sins and be protected from hell fire.

O children of Adam, do infaq (on My Way), then I'll give you a living. (Hadith Qudsi)

Narrated Abu Hurairah ra than he said: The Prophet has said: On every day the sun appeared to him there is charity in every human joints. So the king said: Applies equally between two people is charity, helping someone rise to the top mount or animal mengangkatkan belongings onto the back of the animal mount is also charity. Prophet said again: A good word is charity, every step towards prayer is a charity and get rid of something dangerous on the road is charity (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)

Shodaqah can with just about anything. With a palm, a piece of bread, a thousand rupiah currency, to show the way, help someone up the goods, picking up / removing a thorn from the street, even the wife and kids to feed.

Abu Mas'ud narrated than ra al-Badri said: The Prophet said: Verily when a Muslim is to give a living to his family and he expects a reward from him, then it is considered a living as a charity. (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)

Therapy

Lo Grabber disease can be eradicated only through two ways: scientifically and Amaliah.

Scientifically you should be aware that:

Nature-grabber that can bring the world's baseness and misery in the Hereafter. However the many treasures that will not accompany nor we carry to the grave.

Wealth belongs to Alloh swt. His delegated to ourselves to be used on lines of his religion and principles of the most functional.

Holding the property because he wanted to go on the spree with her, an animal nature and its value is only temporary. While infaq way of Alloh, is a wise and temperament will be the eternal reward and double.

And if the treasure is not diinfaqkan with the intent to be inherited to their children and grandchildren, as if we left the property to them and, while we ourselves to Alloh Almighty. with a crime.

This is really stupid. How not, if his son someday rnenjadi pious child, surely Alloh swt. sufficient sustenance. But if the wicked son, the treasure would be used for disobedience. Precisely the estate into an opportunity for ma’siat deeds. Parents are even suffering, while others enjoy it.

As for the Amaliah, it is necessary to take two ways:

For the time being tempted by the popularity and imagine getting more replies, so that they can motivate themselves to glad infaq.

By constantly discipline ourselves to diligent infaq, so that eventually became a field and used.

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Rokok pun Mampu Ber-Haji

Anda perokok? Kalau benar pastinya mampu melakukan ibadah haji. Kok bisa? Bisa saja, dengan uang yang digunakan membeli rokok perhari bisa digunakan untuk bekal ibadah ke tanah suci. Tidak sepenuhnya benar jika ada anggapan bahwa ‘saya belum mampu berhaji karena tidak punya biaya’, atau 'saya belum bisa menunaikan ibadah haji karena Alloh belum memberi rezeki yang cukup'. Padahal faktanya dengan sengaja membakar setiap hari sebagian rezeki yang Alloh berikan itu dan dipergunakan untuk merusak diri sendiri dan orang lain yang terkena asapnya.

Saya tidak bermaksud untuk menyinggung anda yang suka ngerokok. Jika anda sekarang berusia 35 tahun dan merokok sejak berumur 18 tahun, berarti anda merokok selama 17 tahun. Hitungan sederhana tentang uang yang dibelanjakan oleh seorang perokok selama kurun 17 tahun adalah sebagai berikut:

Misal 1 hari 1 bungkus = Rp. 7000 (harga rata-rata sebungkus rokok).
Berarti setahun = Rp 7000 x 365 hari = Rp 2.555.000.
Jika merokok selama 17 tahun = Rp 2.555.000 x 17 = Rp 43.435.000.
Ongkos Naik Haji saat ini sekitar Rp 35. 000.000.

Berarti sudah lebih dari cukup untuk biaya naik haji kan?
Nah, sayang sekali jika uang segitu banyak dibakar habis demi yang namanya rokok. Kenikmatan sesa(a)t di dunia yang mengalahkan kenikmatan dunia wal akhirot (ibadah haji).

Seorang perokok saja bisa mengumpulkan uang sebesar itu, maka bukan perokok pun tentunya bisa menabung lebih dari itu dan bisa digunakan untuk keperluan yang lebih bermanfaat. Insyaalloh… amiin.

Ilustrasi di atas saya persembahkan untuk saya sendiri dan keluarga, namun tidak ada salahnya saya berbagi ke orang lain. Maafkan bila ada yang kurang berkenan. Kekhilafan datangnya dari saya dan kebenaran hanya dari Alloh. Wallohua’lam

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People Who Are Forbidden To Go To Hell

فإن الله حرم علي النار من قال لاألاأله ألا الله يبتغي بذلك وجه الله
"Allah forbids the hell people are saying" Laa illaha illa "for wanting the pleasure of Allah." (HR.Al-Bukhari and Muslim from Shabat 'Itban radi' anhu)

Testify to the La ilaha illa to the seven conditions, without the conditions it is the creed will not be beneficial to speak it, and will not acquire virtues mentioned in the above hadith.

The seven conditions are:

1. Science (knowing)

It means understanding the meaning and intention, knowing what is excluded and what is defined, (science) who deny the stupidity / lack of knowledge about the meaning of it. Alllah says:
إلا من شهد بالحق وهم يعلمون (86)
"But (people who can intercede is) someone who recognizes the right of (tawhid) and their belief / know (him)." (QS az-Zukhruf: 86)

It means people who testified to the La ilaha illalla, and understand with their heart what was said by her spoken. Had he said it but did not understand what it means, then the testimony is not valid and not useful.

2. Sure (sure)

People who pledged to believe that the content of the creed. When he doubted the vain testimony itu.Allah Exalted says:
إنما المؤمنون الذين ءامنوا بالله ورسوله ثم لم يرتابوا وجاهدوا بأموالهم وأنفسهم في سبيل الله أولائك هم الصادقون (15)
"Those who believe only those who believe in Allah and His Messenger, then they did not hesitate, and they strive with their wealth and their lives in the way of Allah, they are the ones who really". (QS.Hujurat: 15)

If he hesitated then he becomes a hypocrite. Prophet alaihi wasallam said:
((من لقيت وراء هذا الحائط يشهد أن لاإله إلا الله مستيقنا قلبه فبشره بالجنة))
"Who do you see behind the walls (garden), which bears witness that there iIlah (god that exists) but Allah, who believe with your heart, so give glad tidings to the (return) of heaven." (HR.Al-Bukhari)

So anyone who does not believe her, she was not entitled to enter Paradise.

3. Qabul (receive)

Receive content and consequences of the creed; worship / worship God alone and leave the worship of other than. Who is to say, but do not accept and abide by, so he included those who Allaah has said:
إنهم كانوا إذا قيل لهم لآإله إلا الله يستكبرون (35) ويقولون أئنا لتاركوا ءالهتنا لشاعر مجنون (36)
"Indeed they had been when it is said to them:" La ilaha illallah "(There is no god that exists but God) they are bragging. and they say: "Do we really have to leave our god-god as a mad poet?" (QS.Ash-Shafat :35-36)

It's just as grave today's worshipers. They say La ilaha illa, but do not want to leave the cult of the grave. Thus they have not received La ilaha illallah.

4. Inqiyaad (submission and obedience to the content of the meaning of the creed)

Allah the Exalted says:
ومن يسلم وجهه إلى الله وهو محسن فقد استمسك بالعروة الوثقى وإلى الله عاقبة الأمور (22)
"And those who surrender themselves to God, was he who do good, surely he has clung to a rope knot kuat.Dan only to Allah is the upshot of all affairs." (QS.Luqman: 22)

Al-'Urwatul-Wuthqa is La ilaha illallah. And meaning yuslim wajhahu is yanqaadu (obedient, submissive

5. That is to say this sentence and his heart was also confirmed.

When his heart llisannya but denied saying, then he is a hypocrite and pendusta.Allah Ta'ala says:
ومن الناس من يقول ءامنا بالله واليوم الأخر وما هم بمؤمنين (8) يخادعون الله والذين ءامنوا وما يخدعون إلا أنفسهم وما يشعرون (9) في قلوبهم مرض فزادهم الله مرضا ولهم عذاب أليم بما كانوا يكذبون (10)
"Among the people there are who say:" We believe in Allah and the Hereafter ", and they were really not people who believe. They want to deceive Allah and those who believe, but they only deceive themselves and they will not sadar.Dalam their hearts is a disease, illness and plus God, and for them a painful punishment because they lie. "(QS.Al - Baqarah :8-10)

6. Ikhlas.

That is clear from all the charitable dust shirk, by the way do not say because he wanted the contents of the world, riya 'or sum'ah. In the hadith 'Itban, the Messenger of Allaah' alaihi wasallam said:
فإن الله حرم علي النار من قال لاألاأله ألا الله يبتغي بذلك وجه الله
"Allah forbids the hell people are saying" Laa illaha illa "for wanting the pleasure of Allah." (HR.Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

7. Mahabbah (love)

It means to love this word and its contents, also love the people who practice the consequences. Allah says:
ومن الناس من يتخذ من دون الله أندادا يحبونهم كحب الله والذين ءامنوا أشد حبا لله ولو يرى الذين ظلموا إذ يرون العذاب أن القوة لله جميعا وأن الله شديد العذاب (165)
"And of mankind there are those who worship rivals besides Allah; they loved as they love God. As for those who believe, really, really love to God. Even if the people who did do wrong was to know when they see the punishment (on the last day), that power belongs to God everything, and that Allah is severe in punishment (they wished). (QS al-Baqarah: 165 )

So monotheist love God with a sincere love clean. While experts shirk love God and love others. This is contrary to the contents of the womb Laa illaha illallah.

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Penyesalan Tiada Akhir

Sudah seharusnya kita syukuri ni’mat akan diinul islam yang dikaruniakan Alloh kepada kita.

“Alhamdulillahiladzi an ‘aamana bini’matil imaani wal islam.”

Mungkin di dunia kita belum merasakan akan besarnya ni’mat iman dan islam ini. Seringkali kita lebih merasa bersyukur atas nikmat berupa harta benda dan kesenangan dunia. Tetapi di akhirat kelak kita akan merasakannya. Sebagaimana yg digambarkan dalam surah al-hijr ayat 1-2:

الر تِلْكَ آيَاتُ الْكِتَابِ وَقُرْآنٍ مُبِينٍ (١)رُبَمَا يَوَدُّ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا لَوْ كَانُوا مُسْلِمِينَ (٢)

1. Alif, laam, raa. (Surat) ini adalah (sebagian dari) ayat-ayat Al-Kitab (yang sempurna), Yaitu (ayat-ayat) Al Quran yang memberi penjelasan.
2. orang-orang yang kafir itu seringkali (nanti di akhirat) menginginkan, kiranya mereka dahulu (di dunia) menjadi orang-orang Muslim.

Ayat-ayat yang mulia ini memberitahukan kepada kita bahwa nanti di akhirat orang-orang kafir akan menyesali kekafiran mereka. Ada juga yang berpendapat bahwa orang-orang kafir ketika menghadapi sakarotul maut akan sangat menyesal dan membayangkan alangkah baiknya jika sebelumnya mereka adalah muslim.

Imam Ath-Thabrani meriwayatkan dari Abu Musa ra, bahwa Nabi saw bersabda:



Jika penduduk neraka telah berkumpul di neraka dan bersama mereka orang-orang ahli kiblat (muslim) yang dikehendaki Alloh, orang-orang kafir itu berkata kepada orang-orang muslim:
“Bukankah kalian ini orang-orang Muslim?”

Orang-orang muslim menjawab, “Ya, benar!”

Orang-orang kafir bertanya lagi, “Apakah islam tidak memberi manfaat kepadamu, sehingga kalian bersama-sama kami di neraka ini?”

Orang-orang muslim menjawab, “Kami mempunyai dosa-dosa, sehingga kami dihukum dengan api neraka ini.”

Alloh pun mendengar kata-kata mereka tersebut, lalu memerintahkan agar orang-orang muslim yang berada di neraka itu dikeluarkan. Sedangkan orang-orang kafir tetap berada di neraka. Melihat hal itu orang-orang kafir menyesali diri, “Alangkah baiknya kami dahulu adalah orang-orang muslim, sehingga dapat keluar dari neraka ini seperti mereka.”

Kemudian nabi saw membacakan surah al-Hijr ayat 1-2 yg beliau awali dengan isti’adzah. Dalam riwayat dari Ibnu Abi Hatim, Nabi saw mengawali dengan tasmiyah sebagai ganti isti’adzah.

Suatu penyesalan yang tiada bermanfaat dan tidak akan bisa mengeluarkan mereka dari kehinaan di akhirat. Mereka di neraka diliputi siksa dan keputus-asaan.

Maka kita jangan merasa iri dengan kesenangan dunia yang sekarang ini sedang dinikmati oleh orang-orang kafir. Biarkanlah mereka larut dalam kesenangan dan hanyut oleh indahnya angan-angan mereka yang pada hakekatnya adalah angan-angan kosong, sebagaimana firman Alloh dalam ayat selanjutnya:

ذَرْهُمْ يَأْكُلُوا وَيَتَمَتَّعُوا وَيُلْهِهِمُ الأمَلُ فَسَوْفَ يَعْلَمُونَ (٣)

“biarkanlah mereka (di dunia ini) makan dan bersenang-senang dan dilalaikan oleh angan-angan (kosong). Maka kelak mereka akan mengetahui (akibat perbuatan mereka).”

Ini sesungguhnya adalah ancaman kepada orang-orang kafir, sebagaimana firman Alloh:

قُلْ تَمَتَّعُوا فَإِنَّ مَصِيرَكُمْ إِلَى النَّارِ

… katakanlah (wahai Muhammad), “bersenang-senanglah kalian, karena sesungguhnya tempat akhir kalian adalah di neraka” [Surah Ibrahim: 30]

Juga firman Alloh:

كُلُوا وَتَمَتَّعُوا قَلِيلا إِنَّكُمْ مُجْرِمُونَ

"Makanlah dan bersenang-senanglah kamu (di dunia dalam waktu) yang pendek; Sesungguhnya kamu adalah orang-orang yang berdosa" [Surah Al-Mursalat: 46]

Wallahu'alambishowab

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The Man of Choice

Who was the man of choice for a Muslim woman to be a companion to live? An official, wealthy, or the handsome face? It could be that all is not the main option chosen and more men with high level requirements of the faith, worship and social activities and propaganda more from him. Or just a mediocre and equal even lower than him with a note as long as he is still Muslim. The choices were often raised in line with the plan and the desire of a woman to travel the household fabric. Therefore, it is said now increasingly difficult to find the ideal man and the "excellent".

The question, whether natural person requires levels of women of faith (religion) the higher the prospective husband?

Marriage is the most powerful bond and conserved between the two kinds of beings. He also brings a lot of things more positive for a person than single life. The soul needs to be bound by the strong binding solid. This binding is aqidah. Because only aqidah that can lead one's life, driving the hearts, minds and feelings, and instilling the most memorable effects, and determine their life path.

In this regard, the scholars agreed on the prohibition on the making of a Muslim woman to marry pagan men, both pagan polytheists and infidels kitabi. It was also affirmed by Allah in His Word, "... and do not marry women idolaters until they believe faith. Truly the believers slave is better than an idolater though he allures you ..." (QS / Al-Baqarah: 221).

In theory, the nature of women will tend to follow her husband. While in the Islamic system, the head of the family is the husband. This reflects that the state's future husband and established a more high-faith becomes a condition that can not be ignored. In the meantime, there is a tendency Muslim men to (intentionally or not) delaying marriage with a variety of reasons. Study, career, economic problems, wants more put the interests of family and various other reasons. The condition is actually very very contradictory to the situation experienced by Muslim women.

For the Muslim woman who understands well the concept of Islam, which became the main measure is the level of faith and the faith of the prospective husband. While wealth, position, physical appearance and background are preferred to be not well, though not dismiss the desire to get a 'better' than all those requirements. That is, the desire for a husband to look attractive, supported by adequate property office promising to be nothing more important for a Muslim woman if the main requirement, namely the level of faith and good morality is not owned by the prospective running mate.

Many Muslim women today who argue that it never hurts to get the best life sholeh, handsome, and educated enough to treasure. Opinion was not wrong, but also not be true if it becomes a reason to reject any sholeh men who come because they do not meet other requirements.

It affirmed the Prophet Muhammad in haditsnya, from Abi Hatim al Muzani, he said, "Rasulullah SAW said," If the coming (woo) to someone you ridhai religion and akhlaqnya, then nikahkanlah (son with) him. If not you do it will defamation arose on earth and great damage, "
They asked, "O Messenger of Allah, if it's there?"
He replied, "If the coming (proposed) to you, people who you pleasure (because of) religion and akhlaqnya, then nikahkanlah son with him." (spoken three times) (Narrated by Tirmidhi)

Imam Ash Syaukani said, "people who you ridhai because religion and akhlaqnya" in the hadith above, shows that it concerns kufu terms of religion and morality. Meanwhile, Malik confirmed that it was only kufu just about religion. Similarly, what is quoted from 'Umar and Ibn Mas'ud, and the Tabi'in like Muhammad Ibn Sirin and Umar bin Abdul Aziz on the basis of the word: "Verily the noblest among you is the most taqwa to Him."

From this side of normal when a Muslim woman wants to get more value from the self-future husband, at least compared to his own. But enough is grateful for the favors and grace given by Allah Almighty Allah if indeed the choice for a Muslim who ... um, Sholeh, handsome, well educated and quite a treasure. He should not be takabbur consider himself more noble than any other Muslim woman, because the real pleasure for all that Allah gives, Allah Leave therein also test to test whether his grateful servants or otherwise.

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Glory of Women

Like men, Allah has given gifts to the woman of glory. So that the glory he owned it, made a condition of a woman in heaven as easily as Anas Ibn Malik narrated that the Prophet SAW, "A woman who worked solat 5 times, fasting obligatory month, guard their chastity, and obedience to her husband then he will enter heaven from any door he wants. " (HR Abu Nuaim)

Abdul Rahman ibn Awf related that Rasulullah SAW said, "A woman Solehah 1000 is better than no pious man. And a woman who served her husband for a week, then 7 door ditutupkan him hell and opened the door of heaven which 8 where he can go from door anywhere without measure. "

In addition, Siti Aisyah ra narrates that the Prophet SAW said, "It is not a menstruating woman except her menstruation is kifarah for sins past. And on the first day of her menstrual cycle read "Alhamdulillahi 'ala kulli hal wa astaghfirullaha min kulli zanbin" then Allah set him free from hell, easily through sirath, safe from the punishment of Allah even raised to the top 40 people Darajat martyr if he is always remembrance of God during her menstrual cycle. "

Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet SAW said, "The best of women is that if you looked at him then he's welcome, if you command him to obey, if you keep your possessions gone and he's also keeping her honor."

There is a history that at the time of the Prophet Muhammad was a man who will go to fight in the way of Allah. Kapada He told his wife, "O my wife ... let not the time you leave this house, so I'm back." Coincidentally, his father suffered from pain, then she had sent a man to see the Prophet Muhammad and the Prophet said to the king's messenger, "For him to obey her husband" Similarly, she sent a messenger rather than just once so he obeyed him and did not dare to come out his house. Then his father died but he still did not see his father's body. He was patient, so he came home. So Allah gave revelation to the Prophet saying, "Allah has forgiven the woman due to his obedience to her husband."

In other reports which say that Allah forgives the sins of his father's part due to his son's obedience.

This is exactly the thing that causes women not blessed by Allah in the way of equality demanded by the people who do not understand religion. Meanwhile, in the event of Isra Mi `raj, the Prophet had looked into heaven is where Allah put women into heaven 500 years earlier than their husbands, and when looking into the Fire Prophet found 2 / 3 of residents are women. Fear of that we will all be Allah.

Abdullah bin Mas'ud narrated that the Prophet SAW said, "If a woman washing her clothes, then Allah records for him the good 1000, 2000 errors forgiven everything even the sunlight would beg forgiveness for her and Allah raised her degree in 1000."

Maulana Syed Ahmad Khan told the advantages possessed by women. According to him, A woman Solehah better than a saint, a woman making flour with reading Bismillah provision will be blessed of Allah, women sweep the floor with dhikr reward such as cleaning the House, Women Solehah better than 70 men pious.

Allah will bless her provision when cooking with dhikr, a woman who closed shame with Allah's veil of light is increased by 13 times from his original face. Everyone will be called to see the face of Allah, the Most Beautiful in the next, but Allah Himself will come to meet with women who hung shame to wear the hijab and she stay istiqomah with it.

The sacrifice of a woman is very appreciated by Allah and His Messenger. It's just that we are not aware of the advantages and the glory that has been given to us all.

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